He or his family traditionally pays for your engagement ring and wedding band, while you or your family pays for his. If you so choose, and he wants to, you can also purchase a men's engagement ring, something like this;
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You can let him pick out your engagement ring or wedding ring set(they don't have to match if you don't want), or the two of you can go ring-shopping(real fun if you make a day of it, go to lunch or on a romantic picnic, call your parents afterwards and tell them that it's official). You can also browse through wedding magazines and leave tear-outs of the ones you like all around the house to drop hints...
He can propose offically while you're alone or he can do it at an engagement party that you or your family throws. After he proposes, THEN you can buy his ring, unless you find all of the rings at the same time. Then just pay for it then and hold onto it until the ceremony.
You wear your engagement ring until the wedding day. Then you can tuck, pin, or sew it into the bodice of your wedding gown or bra(next to your heart), or you can wear it on your right hand ring finger. There are all kinds of traditions were this is involved.
You don't have to even have an engagement ring if you don't want, but let's face it, people don't always take an engagement seriously if there's no ring.
I wore my wedding band(a diamond eternity ring) as my e-ring, but I finally broke down and got an antique ring myself. It looks great with the band, and we'll use it instead of the band for our formal ceremony in the fall(we've already had the civil ceremony).
Congratulations, and Good Luck!
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