Maybe something like "the wedding party will be attending dinner following the cerimony at ______, please feel free to join us there as well, however be advised that dinner will not be provided by the wedding party."

or something less horrible then that, that warns people they're gonna have to pay. If it's a small close group of people, they shouldn't mind any trippy wording that tells them all the details they need rather than pure poetry that misleads them.

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