If you are financially unable to contribute, I'm sure she'll understand. If you're merely unwilling to spend anything and are looking to use "we only see each other occasionally" as an excuse not to give her a gift, that's not nice. You don't have to spend a fortune to send a heartfelt gift, and to call it a "mail me a present invitation" doesn't speak well of your attitude. You aren't obligated to send a gift, just RSVP that regrettably you are unable to attend.

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