She attended your wedding. You moved away, not her. Did you send her your new address so that she could keep in touch? Maybe she wanted to and couldn't. I really doubt she expects you to attend the wedding, but maybe she thought it would be a good chance to show off the new baby as well. That being said, gifts should be given out of love, not obligation, and it is her 3rd marriage so I don't think it's necessary. Some people would probably request that you not send gifts. Why not send a card, tell her you're happy for her, and include your address with a note telling her you'd enjoy hearing from her. I'm sure she'd be very pleased to hear from you.

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