[C's bride]

i need some advice. my dad and both grandpas passed away 3 and 4 years ago. i'm 22 years old, getting married this summer. i'm disappointed (to say the least) to not have a father-daughter dance at my reception because i've always dreamed of it. i would like to have some special dance for fathers and daughters where they can all join in while i dance with my brothers or fiance's dad, maybe. what do you think of this idea? is it too much, too particular, too orchestrated, etc? do you have any other/better/creative ideas? i really need some brutally honest opinions. i feel too weird about it to even ask any of my engaged friends. i don't know anyone else who's had a wedding without a father. help me please!?!