Our parents should know what it was like when they planned their weddings and our grandparents took over their choices for their children's wedding. I quite frankly think it's NONE of our parents business how we plan our wedding, who we invite, and should keep their opinions to themselves (unless they are asked for their opinions).

Money given to children for their wedding shouldn't have strings on it, but unfortunately most of the time it is. Parents who don't financially contribute for their children's wedding have NO right to dictate or tell anyone what to do for their period. End of discussion is what I say.

My mother tried to get me to invite a cousin and her nasty daughter to my wedding. I told my mother I can't stand her or her stupid daughter,a nd I am NOT inviting her period. She said it's family.... I'm like NOPE. It's MY money, MY wedding, MY decision. End of discussion. That's all you should be saying.

good luck. :)

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