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don't accept the invitation to the wedding! :)

hmmmm...this way... the greedy bride gets nothing...
well except a husband who is just as greedy.

So there you have it...don't go, don't pay to go, send them a card and wish them good luck. if they ask you in the future why you couldn't make it, you were out of town...if they ask, which they may, why didn't you send us a present of money...tell them you think it's tacky.

Too bad, they would have gotten money anyway without asking. Unreal is all I can say about asking for money....boy are they in for a surprise because I'm sure a lot of people feel it'll be tacky too and who knows, will attend the wedding, but give them a gift instead. hey...there's a thought, give them a gift that you think they could use. How can they say no, or give it back, put a gift receipt inside so they can return it for money. Find something on sale real cheap! :)

i've only gotten invitation sorta like that...."hey my daughter, your niece is turning 16...wouldn't it nice if she received a card from everyone wishing her a happy birthday!" no kidding. from her dad. looking for money. So I sent her a nice card, no money. heck, they never sent my kids a card, so ... there you have it.

anyway...wedding...I guess it would depend upon how close these friends are of yours, relatives... well..wish you luck there!

Why not ask others who are invited to these same functions and see what they have to say? Possibly get a group of friends together and you all chip in $20 and a card....

tacky, tacky, tacky...I guess is all I can say. Good luck.

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